I am recently divorced. I know, there is a sigh that goes along with that, that you get from everyone around. The worst part? I also have kids. That gives two sighs. Kids are great, but it was much easier to date before I had them. They kind of make the entire process of finding a mate impossible. I wouldn’t go so far to say that I was a slut when I was in college, but I will say that I had many sexual experiences that were very enjoyable. Of course that all ended when I got married. After about ten years of loveless sex, I decided I had had enough. That is what led to me saying “I don’t anymore”. The problem is that things have changed drastically since I was single and my children don’t care that I am horny and looking for some sex.
The good news? The good news is that there are new ways to find love when you want it. It isn’t like back in the day where I went to bars and got drunk, told some guy I don’t normally do this, and woke up to do the walk of shame. Those were difficult days full of double standards, lies and bad feelings. Luckily those days are well behind us. There is no shame in saying that all you want from a guy is sex. There isn’t the stigma anymore and you don’t have to pretend that you aren’t that “type of girl”. You can relish in being that type of girl and celebrate it to boot.
The biggest problem with getting the sex that I want is that I can’t bring them home to this house and I certainly can’t let anyone in my community know what I have been up to! If someone in the PTO catches wind that a guy has spent the night I will never hear the end of it. That is why the best way to get casual encounters is here through casual encounter sites for adults online. If you don’t know what they are, you are really missing out.
I don’t have to worry about getting all dressed up to hit the bars and paying a babysitter in the hopes that I will get lucky. I can get lucky for sure and do it at all hours of the day. I don’t have to wait for the last call in a bar and the lights to go on, I can arrange a sexual encounter during the day while they are at school anywhere I want. It is a beautiful thing. I will tell you that I have been heading to pick up at their school with a whole new smile on my face and satisfaction in my bones since I found causal encounter sites for adults online.
What encounter sites for adults have I had the most luck on?
Since I have kids it is not simple to go out on dates, or even to arrange hookups at night. If I want to leave they are still little and it involves me hiring someone to watch them. If I want to be totally honest, I don’t feel like a superior mom leaving them alone at night while I get my satisfaction, maybe it is just a mom thing, but the sites that have adults who are into sex at different times of the day work best for me.
I also found that finding a site that caters to people who are like you, works best. I used to think that it was about finding the most popular site. The thing is that the most popular didn’t fit with who I was. It was chalked full of twenty something who were still on their own, had their own apartment and weren’t looking for an older woman on her second time around. I also found that the sites that catered to either people with kids, or married people are the ones that I had the most luck with. There may be a tiny part of me that feels guilty about cheating with a guy who is married. All I can say is that if it wasn’t with me, then it would be someone else. I am not making him cheat, but I also know that he won’t come knocking on my door and embarrass me in front of the kids.
The key to your success on online dating sites is to know how to make yourself look the most attractive by knowing who it is that you are targeting. Since I am looking for attached guys I find those sites that cater to an older crowd. I put in my profile that I am not interested at all in getting married. I also stress what it is that I am looking for which is nothing more than they are. The most important part is the picture. The thing that is going to make you attractive is always going to be your profile picture.
I was very tempted to put a picture in there that would attract a lot of guys. Then I thought about it and I decided to find a lower key one. I don’t want every guy in the world blowing up my email, I just want the right one. When choosing the profile picture make sure that you are attracting the guy that you want. Don’t get so excite about finding sex that you don’t think about what it is that you may find. Sex can be all good and fun but you have to keep your wits about you to ensure that you are being safe and protecting yourself. If you put yourself out there and don’t stop to think about what you are doing, there is the potential to get hurt. Think about all the things that you are doing when you post yourself to an adult personal ad site. The last thing you want is for it to come back to haunt you.